A eulogy does not have to be long to be good. Two minutes - roughly 250 to 300 words - is enough for one clear portrait of a person, and a short eulogy delivered steadily often lands harder than a long one that loses the room or the speaker.
Why short often works better
Grief makes long speeches hard to write, hard to deliver, and hard to listen to. A short eulogy forces you to choose the one thing you most want people to remember, which is usually the strongest version.
The structure of a short eulogy
One line on who they were to you. One short story that shows their character. One thing you learned from them or will carry forward. One closing line, often addressed to them. That's it.
Example - for a parent
'My mother measured her life in other people's comfort. If you were in her house you were fed, and if you were sad she noticed before you said anything. She taught me that paying attention to people is a form of love, and she did it better than anyone I've known. Mom, thank you for noticing. We'll try to keep it up.'
Example - for a friend
'Dave was the friend who showed up. Flat tire, breakup, four in the morning - Dave showed up, usually with the wrong tool and the right attitude. Twenty years of that. The lesson of Dave's life is embarrassingly simple: be the person who shows up. I'm going to miss him showing up.'
Example - for a grandparent
'My grandfather built things - furniture, gardens, arguments about politics. What he really built was a family that likes each other, which is rarer than it should be. Grandpa, the table you made is still in the kitchen. So is everything else you made.'
Frequently Asked Questions
How long is a short eulogy?
About two minutes, or 250 to 300 words. That's enough for one clear portrait, one story, and a closing line.
Is a short eulogy disrespectful?
No. A focused two-minute eulogy is often more powerful than a long one, and it's far easier to deliver without losing your composure.
What should a short eulogy include?
One line on who they were to you, one story that shows character, one thing you'll carry forward, and one closing line - often spoken to them.
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